Khai is trained in couple counselling and applies the Gottman Couples Therapy Method and assists couples to:
Build satisfying relationships
Improve their communication
Manage conflict or disagreement
Enhance Sexual adjustment
Resolve thoughts on separation or divorce
Improve parenting skills
Relationship improvement groups including non-English speaking
Through looking at the dynamics of the relationship the counselling process will assist in taking away the sense of blame that you may have developed towards your partner and instead for an alliance in the relationship. The focus of Flow Counselling in relationship therapy is to deepen respect, affection and closeness to one-another and build a greater understanding of each person in the relationship. The following skills are developed over several counselling sessions (individual or couple):
learning how to communicate without criticism
asking open ended questions and responding to answers without judgment to facilitate easy communication, understanding and respect
learning skills to cultivate appreciation and influence each other positively
building trust and commitment in the relationship by focusing on positive emotions, understanding each individuals internal world, and valuing individual and shared life goals
how to repair problems, make compromises and savour friendships
One of the long term goals of relationship counselling with Khai is to ensure that conflict discussions are calm and constructive so that any gridlock conflicts can be turned into compassionate dialogue. Such approaches are proven to strengthen and sustain the relationship.
Khai Wong is also experienced in cross-cultural marital and relationship issues. Therapies and interventions assist with building intimacy, romance whilst building respect and communication.
Intensive and marathon therapy is available for couples and individuals who find it difficult to commit to individual session over time. Three-hour sessions in a row of four days are available, or two full day sessions on weekends are available. Intensive and marathon sessions must be pre-booked and paid in advance.